The big idea
In short: love the actual person, especially the grieving and the weak. “Comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men” (5:14). “See that none render evil for evil unto any man” (5:15).
Grief is allowed, but not without hope: “that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope” (4:13).
The rule underneath: Law 2 · Love the actual person
Love the person in front of you: neighbor, stranger, enemy.
Keep it: Trust grows and people are cared for.
Break it: Faith turns into talk, and real people get hurt.
Shows up in: Leviticus, Ruth, Luke, Romans, 1 Corinthians
Other rules in this book: Work honestly, Repair
Live it: Playbook 02 · How to love
14And we urge you, brothers, to admonish the unruly, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, and be patient with everyone. 15Make sure that no one repays evil for evil. Always pursue what is good for one another and for all people. 16Rejoice at all times. 17Pray without ceasing. 18Give thanks in every circumstance, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.14Now we exhort you, brethren, warn them that are unruly, comfort the feebleminded, support the weak, be patient toward all men. 15See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men. 16Rejoice evermore. 17Pray without ceasing. 18In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.14We exhort you, brothers: Admonish the disorderly; encourage the faint-hearted; support the weak; be patient toward all. 15See that no one returns evil for evil to anyone, but always follow after that which is good for one another and for all. 16Always rejoice. 17Pray without ceasing. 18In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus toward you.1 Thessalonians 5:14-18
At a glance
- What it is
- A letter from Paul, Silvanus (Silas), and Timothy to the church in Thessalonica, a port city in northern Greece. 5 chapters.
- Who wrote it
- Paul. Nearly all scholars agree.
- When and where
- About AD 50–51, from Corinth. Most scholars think it is the oldest writing in the New Testament.
- Background
- Paul had to leave the city in a hurry after a riot (Acts 17:1–10). He sent Timothy back to check on them, and wrote when Timothy returned with good news (3:6).
- Read it in
- About 15 minutes.
What it says
1–3 · A church that stuck. The people “turned to God from idols to serve the living and true God” (1:9), even though it cost them. Paul reminds them how he lived among them: “gentle… even as a nurse cherisheth her children” (2:7). He worked “night and day” so he would not be a burden (2:9). He was worried, and Timothy’s report brought relief (3:6–8).
4 · How to live, and how to grieve. Keep sex holy, and don’t wrong a brother in this (4:3–6). Love each other more and more (4:9–10). “Study to be quiet, and to do your own business, and to work with your own hands” (4:11). Then comfort for those whose loved ones have died: “the dead in Christ shall rise first” (4:16), and the living will join them “to meet the Lord in the air” (4:17).
5 · Stay awake. The day of the Lord will come “as a thief in the night” (5:2), so live ready. Encourage each other (5:11). Respect your leaders, help the weak, never pay back evil (5:12–15). “Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks” (5:16–18). “Prove all things; hold fast that which is good” (5:21).
13Brothers, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you will not grieve like the rest, who are without hope. 14For since we believe that Jesus died and rose again, we also believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in Him.13But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. 14For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.13But we don’t want you to be ignorant, brothers, concerning those who have fallen asleep, so that you don’t grieve like the rest, who have no hope. 14For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus.1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
Go deeper
- Original words. Parousia, “coming” (4:15), was used for the grand arrival of an emperor or official at a city. The people would go out to meet him and bring him in. Apantēsis, “to meet” (4:17), was the word for that welcome party.
- Structure. Thanks and memories (1–3), then teaching on holiness, grief, and readiness (4–5).
- Why it matters. It shows what the earliest churches worried about: persecution, death, and when Jesus would return.
- How the laws interlock. Law 2 runs through the whole letter: love more and more (4:9–10). Law 7 is 4:11–12: quiet, honest work. Law 12 is 5:15: no payback.
Hard parts
The rapture (4:16–17)
What it says The living will be “caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air” (4:17).
The rule underneath God first. The point Paul draws is comfort: “comfort one another with these words” (4:18).
What people added Some Christians read this as a secret rapture (from the Latin for “caught up”) that takes believers out before years of trouble on earth. Most churches in history read it as part of Jesus’ one public return, with believers going out to welcome him back to earth, as the word apantēsis suggests. debated Churches have split; this page does not settle it.
How it has been used: The teaching of a rapture before a time of trouble was spread in the 1830s by the British preacher John Nelson Darby. It reached millions of Americans through the notes of the Scofield Reference Bible (1909), and later the Left Behind novels (from 1995), which with their spin-offs sold more than 80 million copies, according to the publisher.
Harsh words about “the Jews” (2:14–16)
What it says Paul says the Jews who opposed him “killed the Lord Jesus” and that “wrath is come upon them to the uttermost” (2:15–16).
The rule underneath Love the actual person. Paul himself was Jewish, and so was Jesus.
What people added These verses were later used to blame all Jewish people for Jesus’ death, feeding centuries of hatred. Many scholars read them as about the specific opponents in Judea (2:14). A few think the lines were added later. debated Most churches today reject blaming the Jewish people as a whole. Compare Romans 11:1–2.
Translation notes that change meaning
- 4:15 “shall not prevent.” In 1611 “prevent” meant “go before.” The living will not go ahead of the dead.
- 4:4 “possess his vessel.” “Vessel” may mean one’s own body or one’s wife. debated
Where it leads
- 02 · How to love: comfort, patience, and no payback (5:11–15).
- 05 · How to work: quiet, honest work (4:11–12).
- 11 · How to live together: a church that looks after its weakest (5:14).
One thing to do
This week
Sit with someone who is grieving
Think of someone who lost a person, a job, a marriage, or their health this year. Contact them this week. Don’t fix it or explain it; just ask how they are and listen (4:18). Write in your journal what they said.
How to read it. Read it in one sitting, then read Acts 17:1–10 to see how the church began.